Men of Refuge Elite Men Crafting Extraordinary Relationships and Legacies
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Start your journey with a team of men working together.
Community
Be a part of our Men of Refuge community through our group events.
Our Purpose
We help men return to and master their masculine presence so that they become a safe refuge for everything they desire in life.
Meet Fabiano Mannino
December 10th, 2014...
This is a day that forever changed my life.
It was the day that my divorce was finalized and the first time I had ever chosen myself first in my life.
Prior to this, I was depressed, felt isolated, and had suicidal thoughts.
My relationship was falling apart, I felt unappreciated, undesired, and like nothing was ever good enough - I lived my life for HER;
I had no purpose, worked 2 dead-end jobs, and felt unfulfilled with what I was doing in the world.
I felt alone in my relationship, turned to porn to cope, and I felt like I couldn't reach out for help because "I'm a man" and "Men don't ask for help"...
These are same beliefs that a lot of men suffer from.
Read MoreBrother, the world is a shit show right now
With social media, dating apps, video streaming apps, and everything else constantly grasping for our attention...
We are the most "connected" we have ever been, yet we are the most disconnected we have ever been.
The loneliness epidemic among men is at an all-time high.
In 1990, the number of men who said they had 6 or more close friends was around 55%.
That number in 2020 dropped to 21% and less than half of them say they have less than 5 close friends.
The amount of men who said they have ZERO close friends has increased by 5 TIMES...
And to add to this, companies like Pornhub and Only Fans are frying our brains...numbing and disconnecting us from the real dating world, and more importantly...ourselves.
This doesn't have to be your reality.
Pillars of Masculine Presence
Listening
Giving full attention to understand without agenda or projection.
Ownership
Taking full responsibility for misalignment, then take immediate action to correct it.
Purpose
Keep your highest mission as your top priority.
Truth
Always honest, even when it’s hard.
Heart
Open your heart, then think, say, and do.
The Refuge Vision
We believe in a world where, the first thing anyone feels when a man walks in the room is:
“I am safe here... I am protected here... This is my shelter...”
Join us in creating this world... by mastering your true masculine presence...
When you do, you will become safe refuge for everything you desire in life.
You'll be able to fully hold yourself, your meaningful service, and your sacred union in intimate partnership.
Are you ready to become a Man of Refuge?
David L. Cook III
Luxury Realtor / Investor / Entrepreneur
Fiancé / Father
"Working with Fabiano and his Refuge Breathe-work has been the single biggest catalyst of change in my life."
Wesley Todd - Husband/Father/Son
Founder and CEO
CaseGlide | Litigation Management
“Fabiano did something I could have never imagined—unlocking every part of me, focusing on my family and myself, not just my business. Now, I feel light, open, happy, and truly myself. It’s almost unfair how lucky I am to have had this opportunity.”
Bobby Stocks
Ad Fellas Marketing & Solutions
Co-Founder and CEO
"And had it not been for Fabiano, the coaching, the breathwork, I wouldn't have been in a position to meet that person. And now I truly know why and how important breathworks and men's coaching is because Again, it has gotten to me where I am today in business and it continues to produce unbelievable results that I couldn't imagine."